š "I'm terrible at marketing". Martin calls BS
Found a message in my inbox this morning - someone asking for help, saying āIām terrible at marketingā.
I donāt buy that though.
I consider anyone in the world skilled at marketing.
If you have a social life, if you have friends, if you have a spouse, or if anyone ever told you āHey, thanks!ā for something, you know how to market.
Even the lone hermit-monk living in a cave, living off of berries and nuts and never speaking to anyone, knows how to market himself.
Itās just that his banner ad reads āpermanently closed for businessā.
Marketing is something we do all the time, just like selling, communicating, and breathing.
We always communicate, and we always 'market' something.
Even if weāre marketing the story that āIām terrible at marketingā.
Youāre not terrible at marketing:
You just donāt have a simple, workable, attractive action-plan yet, that you voluntarily launch into every day with glee & zest, and thatās designed to get you in front of the right people, at the right time, and with the right message.
The difference isnāt between āIām bad at marketing and āIām good at marketingā.
The difference is between āI market stuff with precision and intentionalityā and:
āI just do stuff without much of a plan or enjoyment, (or: I just donāt do anything at all) because Iāve told myself that Iām bad at it".
Besides: Itās not about 'doing marketingā.
Itās about connecting with people who seek a particular kind of value, and letting them know that you can equip them with that value.
Thatās whatās behind friendships too, albeit mostly automatic: You signal (i.e. 'market') to people who you are and what you stand for, and those who want that in their lives become your friends.
And if you want your business to be filled with clients who you like as much as your friends, and who pay you handsomely, all you need to is not let things happen automatically, but with precision and intentionality instead.
All you need to do is create and repeat a simple set of actions that you enjoy doing.
Which ones?
Canāt say - depends on your situation.
Happy to have a chat and see if we can create a fun action-plan for you, though.
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